The hair, the voice, the attitude, it all works for me. In the wise words of my good friend Ashley, "Why do all the guys I like have to be gay?"
I have to admit, I've never gone through this but in the case of Neil, I have to be angry. I love him. I attached a video of him closing the Tony Awards because it will continue to be brilliant The golden globes line gets me every time. Not to mention that Barney is to How I Met Your Mother, as Chuck is to Gossip Girl. Totally shameful but you love it.